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  • A piece of paper

    Over 10 years ago I had to be hospitalized for my own we’ll being, I have learned since then that I’m much more than a diagnosis on paper. I’m a functioning human being that interacts with society on a daily basis.

    Stalkers & haters be damned as I have learned to live my life the way I want & have been married for 12 years now. Hence, I have stability in my life. What transpired over 10 years ago I wouldn’t wish on anyone.

    This week I learned that the sloppy & lazy police department only sees what’s on paper. Gawd forbid they should *actually* do their jobs.

    But back to me, I get up in the AM & go to sleep pretty much the same time every night & as I have learned that is the healthiest thing to do. As my husband knows I hardly drink & when I do it’s rare.

    I have NEVER used street drugs in any form, but I tried some laced weed over 20 years ago & it didn’t go well. So I consider myself a person that lives clean. We eat organic produce & hardly eat out.

    I like to walk & hike & have shoes & equipment for both. I am slightly over-weight due to some medication I was on 6 years ago. I don’t gain weight as I like to fast during the week. I have Never smoked as I find the habit disgusting.

    I believe in intuition & your gut feeling, like you’d never walk down a dark alley at night. I trust my gut, not what other people try to convince me of. If something feels Wrong it usually is.

  • Follow-up to the most recent post.

    First the female officer didn’t believe me by having the doctor call my house, it’s a very UN-professional way of making sure I would NOT file a police report. As recently as yesterday a woman threw herself out of a car, in the US they call that a Rolling domestic. The guy she was with “claimed” she “willingly” did it.

    Women don’t just jump out of moving cars, the woman in question died from doing it. That means she was scared out of her mind. IF the police don’t prosecute him for murder they don’t understand what a Rolling domestic is, the police aren’t as “Progressive” as they “claim.”

    As for what’s happening with me I’m documenting everything including what & how the female officer treated me to what the doctor said to me. Let’s just say it’s in more than one place. See like I wrote before, this ain’t my first rodeo.

    I can write here that it’s One of The Many reasons I haven’t had any faith in the police since I was assaulted by them in 2007. That went all the way to the DOJ investigation of the department. It’s also why I have NOT gone to the police here. Cause they DO nothing & aren’t Reliable which is shown by that rookie at the police station.

    The graffiti “f*** the popo” is all over town, it says it all if you ask me. I have been out of our house Every time the person (s) entered our house. I have been on CCTV on buses & in shopping centers in town & my bank records show the same. Hence, I can’t be in 2 places at once & I Never fold my clothes, clean or dirty. So there’s that.

    But hey I’m “supposed” to confront my stalker, that’s what the rookie said. She lives in a very pretty box with signs like “stalkers never kill” & “don’t believe women who have a mental illness” cause you “know” we “fabricate” stories. It’s ONE of the MANY reasons it took me 2 years to go to the police station.

    The female officer actually did Exactly what I thought she’d do. So when the doctor called I wasn’t surprised, you see NOT my first rodeo. If something happens to me, my husband has cause to sue them. But hey how would I know that… unfortunately I am NOT the Savant in this scenario. The police are & that sloppy rookie.

  • 6,000 miles with nothing changed.

    I start by writing this with caution as yet another police department doesn’t want to do their job. I will not name them BUT will say I am not surprised JUST angry.

    Stalking & entering someone’s home IS breaking the law. But I get referred to the emergency doctors office, who called me & wanted to know my name. Unfortunately NOT my first rodeo.

    The female officer I spoke with asked if I had confronted my stalker, unprofessional on a whole new level. Last time I did that I was stalked for over a decade, but hey that sounds soo rational.

    Maybe that’s why they’re considered the laziest office in the land. NO surprise really. As if I know who my stalker is? I know it’s a neighbor who sees me when I come & go. They have friended our dog so he doesn’t bark when they come into our house & to the door, something I find creepy, because our dog Barks.

    As someone who has been stalked for most of the last 20 years, this kind of lazy policing is why women end up dead. I know I saw a man in our bushes 2 weeks ago & it was Right after I came home. Why would I fabricate a 6’1″ man in the bushes? I also had been in town & on a bus, lots of places with CCTV.

    As a survivor of 3 of them, I trust my gut. It’s sad that women who are stalked should do the very dangerous job of “finding out” who’s stalking them on their own. Who says to a stalking victim, someone who doesn’t want to do their job.

    I’m disheartened as I thought the Norwegian police where “different.” I say lazy. That’s what my stalker is counting on too, funny that.

    Updated on June 20th at 10pm