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Navigating life through coffee, volunteering & laughter.

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  • Supportive & honest

    What quality do you value most in a friend?

    Since I recently lost someone close to me because they didn’t believe what I was telling them. I have since learned that I deserve better than that.

    The two most important values in a close friend are that they’re supportive & honest. That they believe in me & what I’m going through. To not pass judgement & but to be there for me. I think if anyone calls themselves a close friend these two things should be automatic.

    By being judgemental & not being supportive has a way of ruining friendships. When you’re kind & genuine you expect others to be that too. How do you treat the people you are closest to?

  • Members of my family

    Who would you like to talk to soon?

    I’m looking forward to seeing a relative soon & talk to her as I’ve not seen her in over a decade. I’m also looking forward to seeing my Mom who has been gravely ill recently.

    It’s a toss up as I’m excited for both. It’ll be so much better than WhatsApp but human contact. I think we’ve become too reliant on apps to communicate & many have forgotten how to talk to each other. That’s why I’m excited for *real* conversation & reconnection.

  • My legacy

    What is the legacy you want to leave behind?

    I think that I’d want to be remembered for being kind & honest. I’m to a point unless you try to harm my dog or my family. Then I put my foot down.

    I’d like to be remembered as a positive & kind person who likes to give back to her community by helping in various organizations.

    I’m grateful everyday for the small things & the big things. Like how my dog becomes hyper vigilant if my husband isn’t home on-time.

    I hope to be remembered as a four legged animal lover. I care deeply for ours & always tell other animal lovers that their dog is good or their cat is cute.

    I’d also like to be thought of because of my writing & my books. I have finally started reading the second edit of my current book. I’m very excited! What do you contribute to the world around you?