Write your guide to setting healthy boundaries in relationships.

I think the most important thing in any relationship is to set clear boundaries. By expressing where your lines are early on.

I thought I had a bestie but after she seized speaking to me & began ghosting me. I questioned everything about her. Set clear boundaries that ghosting is not okay early on.

Also, stalking in any form is a huge red flag & shouldn’t be ignored.

If your partner proposes after just a few times, run. It’s a red flag & it means they want to control your every day actions.

By starting the conversation early in the relationship you can avoid drama & conflict. Be healthy & express yourself!

Do you think humans will ever colonize Mars? What would life there actually look like?

Maybe we should address our current issues in the world. Such as global poverty, deadly spreadable diseases and a few deadly wars. Before we send a select few to their death in outer space.

I don’t care about the world race to Mars when we’re ruining the planet we currently live on. It’s like a little kid pointing at an object saying it needs it when they have a room full of toys. Not acceptable & certainly not responsible.

We need to end global poverty & racism, sexism & other isms we should have addressed 20 years ago!

Why blind us with a deadly trip to Mars, when we can’t seem to end wars on our own planet. I’m not amused nor enticed by trillion children whose rockets fail at launch. When we look around us in our own backyard we’re not addressing our current cultural downfall & society’s issues. Nope. I’d like to address what’s happening to planet earth First. Then maybe we can think about other unattainable planets.

What’s a fear you’ve overcome — and how did you do it?

I recently was tricked by a woman that was supposed to help me get a job. She lured me to one place & then proceeded to take me to another. The best part was that it wasn’t a job at all, it was volunteering.

Something I’ve spent half my life doing. She essentially tricked me & the illegal part of the equation was that I’d have to pray before I volunteered. It wasn’t a job— she thought she’d get away with it. I contacted the place that I’d originally spoken to & called them the morning I was supposed to start. I told them what she’d done & how.

They were not amused by what I told them. The last day I saw her, the rotten apple she had written a bunch of unprofessional things about me in the letter to the organization I had gone through. I corrected her on what she’d written as I read it carefully.

I stand up for myself now. Period.