What was the hardest personal goal you’ve set for yourself?

For me growing up in a turbulent & unsafe house made me drawn to bad men. Narcissists, emotional abusers & of course control freaks.

I swore at the end of my 20’s that I’d stop dating men that hurt me emotionally & physically. The hardest part was Not dating at all.

I remember feeling really lonely around my 30’s because the only men I trusted were the ones I was friends with & had no sexual component with. I trusted my local barista more than some random in the café.

Choosing for the first time myself. It was hard but worth it as my now husband is also my best friend. He’s kind & patient & sweet. Yes, we have disagreements but we solve them together. The hardest goal I set for myself was in my late 20’s. Now, I’m in a boundary respecting relationship where we both have say.